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May I Be Kinky

“Bondage By Nature” by Ellie Van den Brande

May I Be Kinky. May as in this month. ๐Ÿ˜› Courtesy of Atticus, he came up with the pun when I told him about my busy kinky plans for May. So this is going to be more like a short kinky life update. ๐Ÿ˜›

In short, there are going to be two munches, two parties, and an afternoon date event for kinky singles looking to mingle. Attending my first munch a few months ago was definitely one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. I love the community here in my little country, I love the great people in the scene. And I feel so honored to be part of the community. Took me long enough to join, now that I’m in, I don’t see myself going anywhere.

So basically, the next four weekends all pack some kinky fun. I might be meeting with a potential sub who enjoys the bruising kind of pain who is eager to taste the cane. I will talk about it more if and when it actually comes to fruition and not now, I don’t want to jinx it. I do feel like talking about me topping, cos I haven’t thought about doing that before but I’ve had a change of heart, maybe, due to a conversation I had at a munch.

Which brings me to the next update. I want to start a new blog post series called ‘Munch For Thought’. I get to meet many smart and fascinating people and sometimes the convos go quite deep and even philosophical. Above all, they make me think about my kink and my roles. Mingling with other kinky people, their ideas and thoughts are bound to affect me on my kinky journey, and I welcome all kinds of changes. I used to see myself quite straight-forward, about what I want and what I like when it comes to kink and I did have very strong opinions about things. But like everything in life, only change is constant. And I might be stubborn and have strong points of view, well, until someone or something comes along and change my mind. And I always welcome change, it can be painful but it also can be very beautiful and what life is all about. I will leave all the deep stuff for later, I think Sundays might be a good day for ‘Munch For Thought’ posts since they might not be too long and they are more emo and less practical than posts on Kinky Wednesdays. I swear I’m doing all I can to get this little blog back on track. While still trying to attend all the kinky events. While still desperately fighting to read that 50 books this year. While still trying to get in great shape. I’m happier when I keep busy. ๐Ÿ™‚

Let me know in the comments whether you would be interested to read about me at those parties and date event. ๐Ÿ˜› Well, I might still write about them anyway. Until then, stay kinky! ๐Ÿ˜‰

Is That a Thing? · Kinky Dungeon

Is That A Thing? – Anal Hooks

Aaaand we’re back with the naughty stuff! This time, it’s all about the little metal hook. I have to admit, if nothing else, anal hooks enable some pretty stunning photos. They actually remind me of a Dom I’ve chatted with a long time ago, back when I was still looking for Doms. He was really into anal hooks, and it might be just that that made me a wee bit hesitant to meet up with him in person, because I used to hate anything anal. But then again, it’s also timing, because twice when he was like ‘let’s meet up’, I was already involved with another Dom.

So anal hooks, after I no longer hate anal, I do have to wonder what took me so long to venture into actually trying it. I remember, not long ago, when Sir Atticus presented his new toy to me, a simply one ball anal hook, I felt a tinge of excitement mixed with fear. Because anal hooks always involve some pretty intense looking bondage. And I was a little worried that my long hair would be too slippery for tying up. Some time passed and I managed to forget all about the hook, until one nice evening when I found myself tied up standing on my tippy toes, my wrists tied up leather cuffs to the ceiling hook, when Sir whispered the words all subbiesย would always equally love and dread to hear at the same time: “Oh, I got an idea.” Especially when you are a little tied up.

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Confessions of a Spanko · Kinky Dungeon

Confessions of a Spanko, Part 9 – The Leather Paddle

Aaaand Kinky Wednesday is back. ๐Ÿ™‚ There had been a while that I wrote a new part for the spanko series here. Maybe you thought that I ran out of spanking instruments to write about, but of course that’s not the case. I’m here to talk about leather paddles today. Funny enough, this what some might consider a beginner’s spanking instrument, for some reason I’ve never tried it. My first fascination when it comes to spanking instruments was the cane, so sometimes I wonder whether I got it all backwards. You know, I started from the most severe of them all (and absolutely hated it right from the beginning). Then moved to crops being my favorite (still are, but for me to wield). I like to use crops because the extra length does damage without me even using much force. And of course, I don’t have much force to use being small. But then Sir Atticus came along and He prefers shorter instruments, like the belt, the brush and now His new favorite, the leather paddle.

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