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More more more! – Thoughts about sex addiction and kink

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First post about naughty stuff in ages! Sorry about that. 😛 And this is going to be a bit of a rambling too. It’s the TV show Shameless I’ve been watching and in it there was this male character who is a self-proclaimed sex addict. He’s been attending meetings and on his way to being ‘healed’ and restricts himself only to sex with one woman whom he loves and only in the missionary position while listening to Seal’s ‘Kiss From the Rose’. When being questioned about his very singular taste in sex, he revealed that sex is like a monster to him, if he chooses to release the monster, he can only get satisfaction from sex acts more on the extreme side, and it would only get more and more extreme cos so-called normal sex wouldn’t cut it anymore.

And that kinda got me thinking. During the early phase of my BDSM journey, when I was still one foot on the vanilla side and one foot on the dark side, I’ve encountered men who simply refuse to experiment the kinkier stuff like bare hand spanking or choking. I’m not sure whether it’s true or not, but the reason they gave me was that they were afraid that their appetite would only get darker and darker and it might get to a stage where nothing short of a hardcore SM stuff would suffice. I’ve also been asked whether I’m afraid that that’s happening to me eventually. Personally, I am not even worried, and I will attempt to explain why not in this post.

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Thank You Thursday Special

Today, we are to celebrate Thank You Thursday, and as all the submissives out there should acknowledge, being a Dominant or Master can sometimes be a thankless duty. All those responsibilities, all the brattiness and tantrums to suffer through, so many things to consider just to keep their subbies happy. So to kinda combine Kinky Wednesday and today’s post, I want to make a little list of things to thank my beloved Dominant, Sir Atticus.

Thank You, Sir, for all the scratches and kisses on my head, and hugs and ‘Come here’s. Your kitten might seem distracted sometimes or just over-excited to see you to appear properly appreciative of all the attention given to her, but make no mistakes, above mentioned actions always make kitten’s heart flutter and get tingly all over. ❤

Thank You, Sir for being semi-patient with your talking cat aka me. As all pet owners would understand, their pet simply drive them crazy all the time.

Thank You, Sir for making an effort to make me feel more secure and at ease by making plans, although You are more of an ex tempore kind of person, while kitten would get anxious and restless without plans.

Thank You, Sir for keeping yourself available for all the closeness kitten wants and used to be too nervous to ask for it.

Thank You, Sir for always be ready to help, like with the moving and drilling holes to walls at the new kitten’s lair. 😛

Thank You, Sir, last but not least, for being You; whimsical, unpredictable, predictable, forgetful but really hard to be mad at, always ready to help, the nicest person in the world, cute especially when grumpy, delectably adorable, funny as hell and so very smart.

And in order to thank You, kitten will continue to try her best to adore you, make you laugh, take care of you whenever you let her, and help and support you in every way. ^^

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Is That a Thing? – Nipple Clamps

Ah the dreaded nipple clamps. Why dreaded, you ask, they are just nipple clamps. A little bit of back story is required. I’ve had one of those bad one night stands, and the guy was really into nipples. Long story short, after that night, my nipples ached for two weeks and were extremely uncomfortable against bras, so I had to wear a sports bra for two weeks. So not long after that I set out to fill my fetish checklist and with that unpleasant memory fresh in mind I put nipple clamps onto my very short hard limit list. I have very sensitive nipples and breasts and I really hate the twisting and clamping kind of pain. The thought of clamps just biting down on my poor girls make me scream in terror inside. Needless to say, when such a basic thing in on my hard limit list, of course it attracted Sir Atticus’s attention. He never pushes the issue but He made sure to tease me with it every chance that He got. I guess not many have nipple clamps as their fetish, it might be something that He doesn’t even pay much attention to, but like all predators, Doms are attracted by the scent of fear, so the mere fact that I’m deadly scared of them makes Him want to try them on me that much more.

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