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You Live, You Learn – Lessons Learned from My Doms

I try to live every day in a way that it would either give me a story or yield me a lesson. Be it a good or a bad thing, it would still give me a good story to tell or a lesson to learn, best case scenarios both. My three Doms were a great source of stories, but each one of them also taught me a lot. They taught me things about my submission, how to be a submissive, what it means to be a submissive, lessons in pleasure and pain, and also through them I learned a lot about myself as a person. As a matter of fact, all my exes taught me about myself, but those are stories for another day. Today I’m concentrating on sharing things my Doms had taught me. Especially now that I’m in the role of a sadist and find myself in the position of the one in charge, I found myself needing those lessons from my Doms more than ever.

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Confessions of a Sadist, part 2

Things had changed since my last entry. I don’t have a Dom now, and since the beginning of the year I decided to put my submissive side to the backseat for a year, and concentrate on… well, everything else. I switched my ‘role’ from submissive to sadist on my Fetlife profile, just so that I won’t get unrequested messages from Doms looking for subs. I’ve spent some time to decide what sadism meant to me, and whether it’s tied to my submissive side. I’ve come to a conclusion that I am not a sexual sadist, as I might be a sexual masochist. As a matter of fact, I’m not even sure I’m a masochist, or is that just something that is part of my submission. Well, I might need to explore that part next year. But for now, my sadist side. I don’t get sexually turned on by hurting others, I just simply really love doing it.

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Blog Shout-Out – Slap & Tickle

Few weeks ago I introduced the lovely Gigi, her insights about being owned and collared and her new blog about sex and kink – Slap & Tickle. In collaboration, she interviewed me for her blog and here’s a little sneak peek:

“Submissiveness is the biggest part of my sexuality, and sex has a really big role in my life, or else I wouldn’t have suffered through vanilla sex for so many years. I’ve described my submissiveness as a breathing break. I feel like I’ve been under water all my life, and only when I get to submit, I can fully breathe. At my first session, it felt like I’ve been eating TV-dinners all my life and for the first time, I got to eat a gourmet meal. The submissive state is my safe haven, where I can be myself 100%.”

That was my answer for just one of the ten questions, go to her blog to read the rest! 🙂 I might be a little biased, but I do think writing about sex and kink is important, and also very fun too. Do swing by her blog and show her some love. ❤