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You Live, You Learn – Lessons Learned from My Doms

I try to live every day in a way that it would either give me a story or yield me a lesson. Be it a good or a bad thing, it would still give me a good story to tell or a lesson to learn, best case scenarios both. My three Doms were a great source of stories, but each one of them also taught me a lot. They taught me things about my submission, how to be a submissive, what it means to be a submissive, lessons in pleasure and pain, and also through them I learned a lot about myself as a person. As a matter of fact, all my exes taught me about myself, but those are stories for another day. Today I’m concentrating on sharing things my Doms had taught me. Especially now that I’m in the role of a sadist and find myself in the position of the one in charge, I found myself needing those lessons from my Doms more than ever.

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Confessions of a Sadist, part 2

Things had changed since my last entry. I don’t have a Dom now, and since the beginning of the year I decided to put my submissive side to the backseat for a year, and concentrate on… well, everything else. I switched my ‘role’ from submissive to sadist on my Fetlife profile, just so that I won’t get unrequested messages from Doms looking for subs. I’ve spent some time to decide what sadism meant to me, and whether it’s tied to my submissive side. I’ve come to a conclusion that I am not a sexual sadist, as I might be a sexual masochist. As a matter of fact, I’m not even sure I’m a masochist, or is that just something that is part of my submission. Well, I might need to explore that part next year. But for now, my sadist side. I don’t get sexually turned on by hurting others, I just simply really love doing it.

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Oral Survival Guide, Part 2 – The Art of Eating Pussy

So. I ran into this little clip on the world wide web and damn. Okay. I let you watch it first and then we talk, mmkay?

Oh Khaled Khaled Khaled. I have no idea how strongly I reacted to this cos I’m fully aware how some people like to do certain things in sex and some people don’t and it’s okay as long as it’s fair and your partner doesn’t mind. But it’s the way he kept repeating that he ain’t gonna do it cos ‘he the king’ and it’s not okay if his wife ain’t sucking his dick. I’m all for treating my man as the king, I am a freaking submissive after all, but Khaled, two words for you from this submissive girl: “Fuck. You.”

And I don’t even like to receive oral but I’ll be damned if my man blasts it to the world that he doesn’t go down on me cos he the king and he doesn’t do that. Who you think made you the king, huh? Disrespecting your own life in public like that. Arrogant much? I think it is long overdue, this part two of oral survival guide; five things you might not know about the vagina and what you need to know to tame it orally. I’ve had my pussy licked hundreds of times, when I was younger, I could only cum with oral. But since, I’ve moved on to other pleasures that I prefer, but I do still like to have that option to get it whenever I want. I’ve always had my fair of oral done on the lady parts, meaning I was the one doing it, and I’ve always loved it.

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1. Scent

A clean vagina doesn’t smell much like anything. If there are any strong scents, it must not be well. And since it is pretty close to the bladder, just like the penis, there might a slight lingering scent of urine, but nothing a quick wash wouldn’t help. I personally don’t mind the natural scent of the vagina. It’s slightly musky in a pleasant way, there’s literally nothing else that has the same scent. As to why some people say it smells like fish, I’ve never experienced that. Some days, especially after penetrative sex, the pH levels might shift and the vagina might produce a slightly chlorine-like scent. At least for my lady parts, there are next to no smell when I was completely hairless. Both the wetness from arousal or the normal vaginal discharge are scentless (or should be). Nothing that comes from a vaginal smells nearly as much as sperm.

2. Taste

Both leftover urine or wetness are slightly salty. I know all the smutty romance books would have you believe that the pussy tastes like honey or any other sweet stuff but I’ve never tasted a pussy that is sweet. And a quick survey of my friends who had licked many a more pussy, coming to almost the same conclusion. Out of all the pussies they had licked, there were only maybe 1-2 % of them that are slightly sweet. Sorry to disappoint, boys and girls.

3. Feel

It’s very very soft, one of the softest things on earth. The skin is very delicate and moist (shut up, I like the word). I really like how it feels on my lips and tongue. And since it’s that delicate, men with beard or mustache, be careful!

4. Technique

I might be able to tell you a thing or two about how to suck a dick but licking the pussy is a completely different skill set. There is no one definite thing, every girl like different things. I personally don’t care much about it, but when I do get it, I like it lot of tongue and sucking, no teeth, no beard or mustache and no fingers. And there’s one trick I really enjoy, which is putting the lips around the general area of the clit, and sucking on it, not just the clit, but all the skin around it. And while sucking, I like the tongue to do this really quick licking motion. I know, very specific. So ask a girl what she likes and what she doesn’t like. Never just assume anything. Ask the girl so show it to you on your dick/pussy. Live and learn, my darlings, live and learn.

5. Sidetracking

When licking pussy, don’t just concentrate on the pussy or clit, take care of those other parts too. The skin on the side of the pussy, the skin between the labia lips and the outer lips, the area between the vagina and the booty hole, and don’t forget, women like rimming too! Don’t forget the inner thighs, or the little spot just before the butt slit begins.

All the technique and skills aside, all that matters the most is the passion. Show your girl how much you love doing it, not just as a chore, not as a foreplay to get it ready for your dick or you just want her to return the favor. Do it like you just love doing it. Do it the way you would like the girl to do it to you. But if your attitude is like Khaled, then you would never get to know what passionate oral sex (or any sex) feels like. You know passion, one of those things you can’t buy with money. 😉