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Confessions of a Spanko, Part 9 – The Leather Paddle

Aaaand Kinky Wednesday is back. ๐Ÿ™‚ There had been a while that I wrote a new part for the spanko series here. Maybe you thought that I ran out of spanking instruments to write about, but of course that’s not the case. I’m here to talk about leather paddles today. Funny enough, this what some might consider a beginner’s spanking instrument, for some reason I’ve never tried it. My first fascination when it comes to spanking instruments was the cane, so sometimes I wonder whether I got it all backwards. You know, I started from the most severe of them all (and absolutely hated it right from the beginning). Then moved to crops being my favorite (still are, but for me to wield). I like to use crops because the extra length does damage without me even using much force. And of course, I don’t have much force to use being small. But then Sir Atticus came along and He prefers shorter instruments, like the belt, the brush and now His new favorite, the leather paddle.

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Day 6 of the Kinky Advent Calendar 2016

The Riding Crop

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Welcome to Day 6 of the Kinky Advent Calendar 2016! Oh poor riding crop, it got demoted from last year’s list. ๐Ÿ˜€ While the riding crop is still my favorite spanking instrument to wield myself, but Sir Atticus prefer instruments that make crisper noises like belts and paddles. The crop also requires more space to wield, so shorter instruments are that way more versatile to use during sex for example. But the crop is still impressive, it hurts a lot with just a little force so it’s perfect for women to wield cos I for one can’t make it hurt that much with the belt or paddles.

Tomorrow, something that also got demoted from last year’s listย on Day 7 of the Kinky Advent Calendar 2016. ๐Ÿ˜‰

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Confessions of a Spanko, Part 8 – The Lexan Cane

Ah, canes, how I hate thee. Canes for me are like a manifestation of the phrase ‘your kink is not my kink’. Even as a self-proclaimed enthusiastic spanko, that doesn’t mean I have to like all the spanking instruments that are out there. When I initially wanted to taste the sting of canes, rattan canes are the only one in my mind. But after one year of experiencing and expanding my kinky world, I started to get curious about canes made from other materials too. Finland is a country very stingy in humidity, which mean taking good care of rattan canes can be quite time-consuming. The pre-use soaking take at least an hour and they need to be oiled regularly or else they would be become very fragile. The necessity of a long soaking also means that there can’t be any ex tempore caning, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing now that I think about it.

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