On my way to a Meet & Play kinky party, so I chose one song from my stories playlist that never fails to make me feel sexy, sexy in a sadistic kind of way. 😉 Have a sexy Friday!
Things had changed since my last entry. I don’t have a Dom now, and since the beginning of the year I decided to put my submissive side to the backseat for a year, and concentrate on… well, everything else. I switched my ‘role’ from submissive to sadist on my Fetlife profile, just so that I won’t get unrequested messages from Doms looking for subs. I’ve spent some time to decide what sadism meant to me, and whether it’s tied to my submissive side. I’ve come to a conclusion that I am not a sexual sadist, as I might be a sexual masochist. As a matter of fact, I’m not even sure I’m a masochist, or is that just something that is part of my submission. Well, I might need to explore that part next year. But for now, my sadist side. I don’t get sexually turned on by hurting others, I just simply really love doing it.
A few weeks back, I got invited to dinner at this tiny little restaurant called ‘Aito‘ (translated to ‘authentic’ or ‘real’). There are several mid-range priced restaurants that have food in the league of fine dining but only 2/3 or even 1/3 of the price. I am not a big fan of fine dining because rarely the food matches the price. But I’ve been to two of these mid-range restaurants now and on both times I was very satisfied. Also, the environment and atmosphere is not as rigid as fine dinings, you can comfortably go to these in jeans. Restaurant Aito might not be considered dead center in Helsinki, it’s tucked a little away, maybe 10-15 minutes walking distance from the very center. For 39 euros you get a three-course menu of your choice and you get three different choices for each course. It is really tiny, with maybe 30 seats, so do book a table if you are going on weekends. I went there on a Tuesday evening so it was not too crowded. Also, it’s closed on Mondays and Sundays. But let’s get into the food.