I try to live every day in a way that it would either give me a story or yield me a lesson. Be it a good or a bad thing, it would still give me a good story to tell or a lesson to learn, best case scenarios both. My three Doms were a great source of stories, but each one of them also taught me a lot. They taught me things about my submission, how to be a submissive, what it means to be a submissive, lessons in pleasure and pain, and also through them I learned a lot about myself as a person. As a matter of fact, all my exes taught me about myself, but those are stories for another day. Today I’m concentrating on sharing things my Doms had taught me. Especially now that I’m in the role of a sadist and find myself in the position of the one in charge, I found myself needing those lessons from my Doms more than ever.
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I’ve been meaning to write about this for a while now, but my head was so otherwise occupied that I just couldn’t. But I have to get back on track somehow. So let’s do this.
So I live in Finland, Helsinki to be exact and it’s a small country. Despite the size, the kink community is rather vibrant and active, albeit small. So for the longest time, we don’t really have a place to call our own, our own club, our own living-room if you will. So I was very excited to learn about a new club being opened in Helsinki! I was nervous to attend a party but also decided it would be so exciting to be there at the grand opening. Maybe even historical! 😀