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Ask a Kinky Girl, Part 2 – Would you ever ‘go back’ to being vanilla?

Well, hi there. Welcome to Kinky Wednesday. *pretending shamelessly that I’m not one day late with this post* And as I stated in ‘Ask a Kinky Girl, part 1‘, I would do these if I have nothing planned for that week. Can’t leave the kinky stuff out, right? 😛 So here’s five randomly picked questions I found online and made them kinky. 😀

What is the sexiest mainstream movie you’ve seen?

I have to admit, I haven’t watched that many mainstream movies about BDSM. For the exact same reason I don’t watch BDSM porn, they are mostly very inaccurate about the lifestyle. But there is one that I actually really like: Secretary. I adore Maggie Gyllenhaal and James Spader is the original Mr Grey. Of course, even as the fan of the movie, BDSM should be sane and not everything is sane in this movie. Like this little scene towards the end where Gyllenhaal’s Lee kept her hands on the desk for days because Mr Grey told her not to move. No one has ever died from a little fasting, and any Dom out there would get aroused from the idea of a sub being that obedient, that was the only scene being unrealistic, but hey it made good a movie. 😛

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What is your ideal penis?

As a matter of fact, I have a perfect answer in my advent calendar here. 😛

Would you ever ‘go back’ to being vanilla?

If you mean whether I would have a relationship with a vanilla man again, then the answer is a sounding no. And if I can’t be with a Dominant, then I would rather be alone. But if you mean whether I would have vanilla sex, well, that is a trickier question. I’m sure those who are only session partners, they would only have kinky sex because that’s the reason they meet up regularly. But if you are more than session partners like the D/s relationship I am in with Sir Atticus, we do other things than just have sex. Sexy times become more spontaneous, we don’t meet up just for sex anything so depending on the mood, the level of tiredness etc etc, sometimes we would have the kind of sex that would look very much like vanilla. It’s a bit like it’s only called Chinese food outside of China, in China they just call it food. XD So for us, it’s sex whether it includes kinkiness or not. But the notion of Sir getting to take whatever He wants whenever He wants, it’s always more or less there. And that’s what makes a relationship Dominant/submissive, the mindset. The mental, not the physical.

Are you interested in the Daddy/little girl dynamic?

Oddly, not really. I guess me being Sir’s kitten satisfies my need for being affectionate. He does like to take care of me, but He still treats me as an independent woman. And also, being a nerd already means I’m just like a little kid all the time. And we had tried the Daddy-calling business for like a second. He does like littles (who doesn’t, they are so cute), but the ‘Daddy’ coming from me didn’t feel right, and I agree.

Why doesn’t everyone like anal?

Hahah, I know right, why not?! Well, being a girl who used to absolutely HATE anal sex, I would say that it’s mostly the toxic combinations of fear, bad experience and the lack of practice. Some would think it’s dirty and it is if you don’t know how to clean it. Spontaneous butt sex is not as glorious as they make you think in porn, I’m not saying it’s not possible, but it is going to get shitty. 😛 Some would think it’s too sinful. I’m not touching that. And some just say ‘no, thank you’ to the mere idea of it. And that’s okay. You don’t have to like everything! But if you want to give it a go, I’ve written an ‘Anal Survival Guide‘ that you might want to read. I also wrote a post all about keeping the dirty away, a post about enemas. Hope they help you get started on your happy love story with anal sex. 😀

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