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Day 1 of the Kinky Advent Calendar 2016

The Spreader Bar

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It’s December!! And you know what that means? The annual kinky advent calendar is here! One year ago I thought that my favorite fetishes list wouldn’t change that much. Oh how wrong I can be. Not only did the order of favorite fetishes changed, some got kicked off the list to make way for new things. Well, it is to be expected, because I’m serving Sir Atticus now, since March this year. So different Doms have different preferences and my preferences would get mold to follow accordingly. So from the 1st of December until Christmas Day the 25th, I will reveal one of the top 25 fetishes of mine, in order of preferences as of right now. Of course, I like other fetishes too, but the 25 of them you are going to see are my favorites. And my taste has become more specific. For example, last year I might just say bondage is one of my favorite fetishes, but this year, I might choose one or two methods of bondage that I like more than I do others, like the fetish I’m going to talk about today. Fun fact: last year on Day 1, it was blindfold. So without any further ado, let’s kick off the year 2016 kinky advent calendar with something long and hard – the spreader bar. 😉

Sir Atticus actually owns spreader bar shown in the picture above. It’s red, it’s beautiful. It’s also fresh in my memories because just last night, I was tied onto one. It’s versatile in its use, but almost always my legs are spread wide by it, thus the name I guess, and I would feel extra vulnerable. As I can’t hide my most sensitive parts. Although I usually stay quite still in bondage, I also like to feel myself struggle against them and find them mercilessly unyielding and unaccommodating, it makes me feel that much more helpless. Especially when something extra painful like lady parts spanking is happening while I’m tied up to one, I would challenge the spreader bar, tugging and pulling and then experience a momentary panic that I really can’t escape the pain. That little potent mixture of panic, fear and pain always send me spiral down the subspace in a dizzying speed and it’s downright intoxicating. Being strapped on a spreader bar, I would also feel exposed and on display and just there waiting for Sir to use as He sees fit, and that all would make me feel owned and obedient. ❤

And that’s for Day 1, see you tomorrow! 🙂

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