Day 21 of the Kinky Christmas Calendar 2015

Day 21 – Bondage

Finally entering my top five. On the 5th spot, the B in BDSM – bondage. I even have a series about bondage on this blog, the first entry is about rope. Bondage has always been my love. I remember my ex complaining that I don’t touch him enough during sex. Most of the time the touching didn’t feel natural to me, I much rather have my wrists bound in some fashion. I’m sure bondage creates different sensations for different people, everyone has their own reasons to love it, or disliking it. I have met a fellow rookie subbie who strongly dislike bondage, and her reason is more a trust issue. I never have that problem, cos as my Dom knows and my friends disapprove, my sense of self-preservation is pretty much non-existent. I knew my Dom for like three hours or so before I let Him tie me up, legs and arms to His bed. Whenever I’m bound by my Dom, I feel safe and peaceful. Instead of testing whether the rope would hold, I simply would lean against the rope and relax. Bondage is never restriction for me, it’s more like something to eliminate distraction. It’s always His command that makes me stay put, the rope is there to help me succeed and it does look damn pretty too.